Adult issues range in complexity, and they can include everything from identity concerns to depression to social anxiety to work-related stress. Sometimes these issues are new to adulthood, but other times, they speak to core struggles you may have started experiencing as a child or teenager. In many cases, the stress compounds gradually.
Making big decisions: From choosing a career to relationship commitments to deciding where your child will attend school, adults are constantly faced with significant choices about their present and future. These decisions can feel daunting, especially if you don't know the best option for your needs, or if you need to make a decision quickly.
Family stress: You may have unresolved issues from your family of origin, including past trauma or relationship difficulties. Likewise, you encounter stress in your current family, whether that includes managing dynamics with extended family members or with your own children. Family stress can be challenging to navigate, and it can pull some of the most vulnerable heartstrings.
Substance use or compulsive habits: Do you escape to cope with stress or feel better about yourself? Adults struggling with compulsive behaviour (substance use, self-harm, disordered eating, shopping) may believe that these issues will resolve over time. However, the opposite tends to be true. Unresolved compulsive habits tend to worsen progressively.
Dating and stress within intimate relationships: Relationship issues can feel complicated at all stages of life. Whether you’re deciding to get married, divorced, or simply having problems with your partner, it can take a toll to navigate these challenges.
Serious mental health concerns: The onset of many serious mental health issues first emerge in young adulthood. However, they can occur at any time, and they can range from being mildly uncomfortable to downright debilitating. In more serious cases, these issues can escalate into suicidal ideation.
Grief and Loss: Adulthood is full of grief, from losing loved ones to watching the kids grow up to leaving a meaningful job. Grief is not bad or wrong, but it can be painful, and feeling alone in your complex feelings can hinder the grief process.