Some teens self-initiate seeking therapy. They want a private space where they can talk about their feelings or needs. However, some teenagers will resist the idea. As a parent, it’s important to consider treatment if your child is struggling with any of the following issues:
They seem to be depressed: Depressive symptoms can happen in childhood, but they tend to emerge during adolescence. Depression may coincide with self-harm, school avoidance, and low self-esteem. In serious cases, it can result in suicidal ideation.
They are getting bullied: Bullying is a rampant problem that can result in both short-term and long-term consequences. Unfortunately, it often leaves both parents and their children feeling helpless about the situation.
They have problems with anger or aggression: While anger is an inevitable emotion, not knowing how to cope with it can lead to all sorts of problems, such as excessive stress, relationship problems, and physical health issues. Some teens will bully others or inflict violence to release their anger. Others might turn it inward with self-harm, substance use, or other compulsive behaviors.
They are questioning or struggling with their sexual orientation or gender: Teenagers may face uncertainty and internal conflict about their gender, relationships, or sexual preferences. It is an unfortunate and unjust reality that the 2SLGBTQIA+ community continues to experience discrimination and violence. If your child is a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, this can certainly have an impact on their mental health.
They are acting much differently: If your child’s mood or behaviour has changed drastically, it could be due to a worsening mental health problem or a recent trauma. Some children might open up about how they feel, but others present as more guarded or even silent altogether. This can speak to difficulties with distress tolerance, which may compound over time.