SFT is solution-oriented and future-focused. The model assumes that you are the expert on your own life. Therapists, therefore, don't act in an all-knowing stance. Instead, they collaborate with you to help you find solutions and build the confidence to achieve your desired goals.
In SFT, therapy techniques primarily focus on drawing upon your own inner strengths and resources. While exploring past life events may be important, the model emphasizes how to find solutions and relief in the present and future. Future-focused questions help you clarify what matters most in defining your own goals for therapy.
Miracle question: The miracle question is a specific question that encourages you to imagine a future where the problem was no longer a problem. For example, a therapist might ask, "If you woke up tomorrow and were not feeling depressed, what would you do differently?"
Scaling questions: Scaling questions help you evaluate a current situation and also recognize progress. Your therapist might ask you, "On a scale of 1-10, how intense was your anxiety the other day?" If you answer a 4, your therapist might then ask, "What would have escalated it to a 5 or turned it down to a 3?" These questions help you assess your emotional states, which can support building solutions.
Exception questions: Exception questions focus on when the problem isn't a problem. It also helps you tap into current solutions you might not be that aware of. For example, if you experience low self-esteem your therapist might ask, "When was a time you didn't have low self-esteem? What made that time different? What do you need to do to have more times like that?"
Coping questions: Coping questions encourage you to recognize your current strengths and coping strategies. If you struggle with self-harm, a therapist might ask, "How did you avoid engaging in self-harm the last time you feel depressed?" This can cultivate a sense of confidence, and it may remind you of your own resilience.